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Gifts, without any cost.

Gift is a best tool to provide someone, with what fulfills him.It does'nt require any specific time or occasion. Even we can gift someone without making them known of it. There are  lot of things that does'nt need even a single rupee, that we can give someone at any time, such as, Dua, there  is none better than this, if someone remembers us , and pray to Allah Almighty for our well being. A pure prayer is thousand times better than any expensive or costly thing. Moreover, Smile  is that beauty product which does not have any side effect , which does not need any caution. It just requires a heart that seeks for happiness, that seeks for good. Prophet Muhammad(PBUH) said: "Every act of Kindness is charity", so every day is opportunity for us to earn good , and this earning will be valuable for both; in this life and the life hereafter. Guiding others in their difficult time , making them calm, helping them to get out of any trouble, giving them knowledge about what the...

Growth

As we all know our physical growth depends upon the diet we take, the way we keep our body balanced. In the same way, the mental growth is dependent upon the diet of our mind,that what we are feeding it, knowledge or fruitless things, joy or gloominess, rest or restlessness,positive or negative.Another aspect is that we can't grow until we stop comparing ourselves with others. When we are propelling ourselves to compete with others , or keeping the mindset to beat others. In this way we are not looking behind the knowledge in it , we are just trying to challenge or beat. Every time we are looking at others , what they do , so we can do better than that to show how creative we are.But its not reality,the best way we can learn and grow is by seeking within ourselves, that what we can do, what are our abilities. When we explore what"s within us , every day we learn more or create more. We seek the way we can improve ourselves than we were yesterday OK! many people think it's ...

Grab Opportunity

Life always come up with a chance at its every stage. It leans upon you to discover or utilize it. Even if you are facing a difficult situation, there is also a privilege in it. To find it, you have to be optimist. You should have the ability to seek opportunity in everything, instead of only pondering upon its harmfulness. Hard times come , but it brings both difficulty or opportunity, dealing with that difficulty will make you to grab the opportunity in it. Its hard but when you begin, you always find endeavour,but the goal in your mind should be to strive for happy ending. You have seen a piece of gold, that was coal who did well under pressure. When you are in pain or pressure, that is the time  you gain. Opportunity is always around you, you should have the mindset to uncover it. So , see light in every dark situation.                                           There are bo...

Act of judgement

The act of judgement has became an order of the day. Every single person attempts to evaluate the other person. Everyone tries to analyze the nature and value of  other people. As a result , different opinions and assumptions are drawn , forming opinion is not wrong, but one should keep it to himself only , instead of communicating it with other person. Because we can't judge anyone , until we have not interacted with that person . Only by seeing , we can't tell that what the nature or value one possesses. Judgement is forming opinion , but passing the judgement comes in another sense. It becomes fake gossiping , that without the awareness of  the nature of other person you are concluding about him. No one is able to tell how the person deals with people, what qualities he have, what is his purpose or many other things . So the act of judgement gives a deep insight of  the person who judges, that what he thinks, not about the person who is judged.       ...

Good for evil

The quote "Good for evil" looks very simple , but hard to apply in this age. Because today it's reversed , that is , Evil for Good. If someone wants to exercise it upon his life , he should have a soul that focuses on good . Its in human nature that everyone possesses good or bad qualities, but focusing on good or positive ones , he can make his life joyful or pleasant. If he is analysing bad or negative ones, he himself is destroying his vibe. Because " Happiness depends upon ourselves" You would be happy if you want to be. It is conceived that doing good is not difficult ,but doing good for evil is hard. Its the power that can make a person unique in thousands of people that beleive in evil for evil. So, the toughest battle is between good and evil , and the only way to succeed is to gain victory over evil by applying good.                        The best way to remove evil               ...

Good communication

As we all know that the act of sharing thoughts and ideas is called communication. But, most of the people are unaware of what is good communication? . For instance, if a person is sharing his views with another person and not trying to understand what the opposite person is saying , and only giving his opinion , not even listening to other's opinion. Then, he is not considered as a good communicator. Because, good communication involves both listening and speaking . It means to give a turn to everyone  for giving their point of views. When you listen others thoughts then you get a better understanding of everything . So it demonstrates that listening is as important as speaking .                    GOOD LISTENER IS A VERY GOOD SPEAKER

PATIENCE

Patience is the most beautiful thing in a person.The ability to tolerate evil is difficult , but not impossible. Through patience one can achieve great things in his life. If one is trying to bear the unbearable then nothing is better than this. Patience is very vital in life without it the results would be catastrophic. It makes a man graceful , and being patient man can easily cope with situations around him. Many poisonous arrows hit people in day to day life , but being patient people can fight deftly. There are thousand of worries in one's life , and he can remove or sort out them only through patience, getting hyper or irritated is not the solution, therefore, dealing calmly with the situation is best way to resolve it.  The way you tackle situation  portrays your personality. So act towards it patiently , in whatever situation you are , try to make yourself understand that what you are going to do will effect your persona.            ...